Butterfly review

Updated September 28, 2026 · FlingCue Editorial Team · Facts checked September 26, 2026

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Our verdict

Butterfly is an app for trans adults and anyone open to dating trans people, with a free account that covers browsing and Flutter messages. Paid access is one VIP subscription rather than credits, starting at $9.99 a month, and profiles ask for first name only with an approximated location.

Key facts

Best for
Trans dating on a phone, with a free account and one subscription instead of credit packs.
Monthly price from
$9.99 (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
What is free
Free account: browse and send Flutter messages (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
Profile verification
Optional face-liveness photo verification (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
Audience focus
Trans people; all genders open to dating trans people (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
Plans
VIP weekly, monthly, 3-month, 6-month (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
Credit system
Subscription VIP, no credits (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
Renewal and cancelling
Auto-renews; refunds case-by-case (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
Privacy and data
First name only, approximated location, no DOB (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
App store rating
App Store (US) 3.1/5 from 22 ratings (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
Categories
Trans (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
Legal entity
DMCUBED LTD (06036262) (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
Headquarters
United Kingdom (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
Founded
2019 (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
Support channels
Email, Community (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
Pricing model
Free
Features
Mobile app
Official website
butterfly.dating

Apps and profiles

Get the app
App Store
Elsewhere
X

Pros and cons

Pros

  • The free account already covers browsing and sending Flutter messages (Free account: browse and send Flutter messages), so you can start talking before paying.
  • Paid access is one VIP subscription with no credits (Subscription VIP, no credits), which keeps the monthly cost easy to predict.
  • Profiles ask for first name only, an approximated location and no date of birth (First name only, approximated location, no DOB), so the data you hand over stays small.

Cons

  • Subscriptions auto-renew and refunds are decided case by case (Auto-renews; refunds case-by-case).
  • Support runs on email and community only, with no help centre or phone line listed.
  • Verification is optional, so a profile can go unchecked with no marker showing (Optional face-liveness photo verification).
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Who it suits

  • Trans adults who want an app built around dating trans people (Trans people; all genders open to dating trans people).
  • People who would rather browse and message on a free account before paying (Free account: browse and send Flutter messages).

Who should look elsewhere

  • Senior.dk Dating, if the lowest monthly figure is what matters most to you: DKK 2.30.
  • EroFantasie or BDSM-baari, if fees of €0.67 to €1.50 and €0.83 to €2.50 suit your budget better.

Pricing and free tier

The free account covers browsing and sending Flutter messages (Free account: browse and send Flutter messages), so you can get a feel for the app before paying anything. Paid access runs through a VIP subscription with no credits (Subscription VIP, no credits), billed on VIP weekly, monthly, 3-month, 6-month terms. The monthly price starts at $9.99, which is the only figure to budget for.

Who runs it

Butterfly is run by DMCUBED LTD and registered in the UK (GB), with the service dated back to 2019. Support runs on email and community, so questions go by email or into the community rather than to a phone line. If you prefer voice help on billing, this is not the place to look.

How Butterfly compares

Frequently asked questions

How much does Butterfly cost?+

Paid access starts at $9.99 a month for the VIP subscription, and you choose from VIP weekly, monthly, 3-month, 6-month terms. Billing uses a subscription rather than a credit pack, so there is nothing to top up between renewals. That makes the monthly figure the only line to budget for.

What is free on Butterfly?+

A free account lets you browse and send Flutter messages (Free account: browse and send Flutter messages). That is enough to see how the app feels and to open conversations before you pay. The service is listed as free with a paid subscription layered on top (free).

How do cancellations and refunds work?+

Subscriptions auto-renew, and refunds are handled case by case (Auto-renews; refunds case-by-case). Turn off renewal before the next billing date if you want to stop, and keep a copy of anything you send. The outcome is not automatic, so plan for a possible charge while a request is open.

Is there photo verification?+

Verification is optional and uses a face-liveness photo (Optional face-liveness photo verification). Members choose whether to add it, and profiles without it still appear in the app. Treat a missing check as ordinary rather than as a red flag.

What personal data does Butterfly ask for?+

The stated privacy approach is first name only, an approximated location and no date of birth (First name only, approximated location, no DOB). An approximated location means the app does not need a precise address to show people nearby. That keeps the profile data you hand over smaller than on apps asking for a full biography.

Is there an app or a website?+

It is listed as an app (app), so dating runs from your phone rather than a browser. The App Store rating is App Store (US) 3.1/5 from 22 ratings, which is worth a look before you commit to a subscription.

How do I contact support?+

Support runs on email and community, so email and the community are the listed routes. Email fits billing questions, and the community handles everyday ones. There is no phone line, so voice-only support is not an option.

Who is Butterfly for?+

The audience focus is Trans people; all genders open to dating trans people. In practice it is built for trans adults, and for people of any gender who are open to dating trans people. That focus is what sets it apart from general dating apps.

Sources

  • apps.apple.com/us/app/butterfly-transgender-dating/id1477... checked September 26, 2026

    Backs: Features, App store rating, Credit system, Founded, What is free, Pricing model, Plans, Monthly price from

    “trackName=Butterfly Transgender Dating; sellerName=DMCUBED LTD”

  • butterfly.dating checked September 26, 2026

    Backs: Categories, Privacy and data, Audience focus

    “Trans Dating / Transgender Dating”

  • butterfly.dating/termsandconditions checked September 26, 2026

    Backs: Renewal and cancelling, Headquarters, Legal entity, Support channels, Profile verification

    “Recurring subscriptions automatically renew unless cancelled prior to the renewal date. Renewal charges are clearly disclosed prior to purchase.”

Compiled from 3 source pages, checked September 26, 2026. We did not open an account.

Butterfly

Butterfly

Trans dating on a phone, with a free account and one subscription instead of credit packs.

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