Fetish.com review
Updated September 28, 2026 · FlingCue Editorial Team · Facts checked September 26, 2026
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Our verdict
Fetish.com suits adults who want a kink-positive BDSM and fetish community with free messaging, chat and forum access, plus an app and photo verification. The trade-off is billing, since paid plans renew automatically and the median starting monthly price across the listed sites is €14.
Key facts
- Best for
- Adults who want a kink-positive BDSM and fetish community with free messaging
- What is free
- Free profile, messaging, chat and forum (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
- Profile verification
- Profile photo #SSC verification (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
- Audience focus
- Kink-positive BDSM and fetish community (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
- Plans
- Free, Premium, VIP; Dominatrix charged separately (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
- Credit system
- Points system, no cash payout of points (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
- Renewal and cancelling
- Auto-renews; cancel any time, 14-day withdrawal (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
- Privacy and data
- Privacy policy with GDPR data rights (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
- Categories
- Fetish (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
- Legal entity
- Ideawise Limited (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
- Headquarters
- Hong Kong (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
- Founded
- 2015 to 2017 (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
- Support channels
- Email, Chat, Help-centre, Community (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
- Pricing model
- Free
- Features
- Mobile app, Verified profiles
- Official website
- fetish.com
Apps and profiles
- Elsewhere
- Xmedia.publifix.net
Pros and cons
Pros
- A free profile, messaging, chat and forum come with the service: Free profile, messaging, chat and forum.
- An app and verified profiles both appear in app and verified profiles.
- The audience is described as a kink-positive BDSM and fetish community: Kink-positive BDSM and fetish community.
- Support runs through email, chat, a help centre and the community: email, chat and help centre.
Cons
- Paid access auto-renews, and Auto-renews; cancel any time, 14-day withdrawal covers cancelling and a withdrawal term.
- Dominatrix is charged separately, rather than sitting in the Free, Premium, VIP; Dominatrix charged separately selection.
Who it suits
- Adults who want a kink-positive BDSM and fetish community
- People who want free profile, messaging, chat and forum access
- Fetish dating users who value an app and photo verification
Who should look elsewhere
- Anyone who wants a free first message may find EroFantasie more to the point, where registration and the first message cost nothing.
- Readers after a forum-only community may find BDSM-baari lighter, since forum use there is free of charge.
- Anyone expecting free contact details should weigh Senior.dk Dating, where signup and browsing stay free but contact needs paid VIP.
Members and plans
Fetish.com is built for a kink-positive BDSM and fetish community, as Kink-positive BDSM and fetish community states. Plan names and the separate Dominatrix charge are set out in Free, Premium, VIP; Dominatrix charged separately. Paid extras sit on a points system, and Points system, no cash payout of points says those points carry no cash payout.
Privacy, billing and cancelling
Fetish.com sets out a privacy policy with GDPR data rights, recorded in Privacy policy with GDPR data rights. Billing runs on the terms in Auto-renews; cancel any time, 14-day withdrawal, which cover auto-renewal, cancelling at any time and a withdrawal term. Readers weighing privacy and billing should check both before taking a paid plan.
Pricing and free tier
Free access covers a profile, messaging, chat and the forum: Free profile, messaging, chat and forum. The paid side is set out in Free, Premium, VIP; Dominatrix charged separately, where Dominatrix is charged separately from the other tiers. Some extras draw on points, and Points system, no cash payout of points says points have no cash payout, so they are not a cash balance.
Who runs it
Fetish.com is operated by Ideawise Limited, named in Ideawise Limited, with a headquarters in Hong Kong. It has been running since 2,015 to 2,017. Support comes through email, chat and help centre. Channel choice ranges from self-serve help pages to in-app chat and the wider community, with email for written questions.
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Frequently asked questions
What is free on Fetish.com?+
Free covers more than a bare profile. Free profile, messaging, chat and forum lists messaging, chat and the forum as well, so a reader can start without paying. Dominatrix sits outside the standard tiers and is charged separately, as Free, Premium, VIP; Dominatrix charged separately makes clear.
Does Fetish.com have an app and profile verification?+
Both appear in app and verified profiles: an app and verified profiles. The verification entry in Profile photo #SSC verification is narrower, naming profile photo checks specifically. That is the level of identity checking the service describes, which matters for readers who weigh verification before they pay.
Who is Fetish.com for?+
The stated audience in Kink-positive BDSM and fetish community is a kink-positive BDSM and fetish community, so the site is built for adults already comfortable with that scene. Readers seeking general dating will find the positioning narrow, and the free tools listed in Free profile, messaging, chat and forum are shaped around the community rather than open dating.
What does the privacy policy cover?+
Privacy policy with GDPR data rights is the published position: a privacy policy that includes GDPR data rights. For a reader weighing privacy, that places data rights in writing rather than leaving them to support replies. Questions beyond the policy can go to the channels in email, chat and help centre, which list email, chat, a help centre and the community.
How does cancelling work?+
The billing terms in Auto-renews; cancel any time, 14-day withdrawal are clear on the mechanics: access auto-renews, cancelling is allowed at any time and a withdrawal term applies. Because renewal is on by default, the withdrawal term matters most for anyone who upgrades from the free tier in Free profile, messaging, chat and forum and then stops.
Do paid extras use cash or points?+
Points system, no cash payout of points settles the question. Extras draw on a points system, and points have no cash payout, so a points balance is not a cash balance that can be withdrawn. Readers who want to know what a paid month actually costs should also look at the tiers in Free, Premium, VIP; Dominatrix charged separately.
Who runs Fetish.com and where?+
The imprint names Ideawise Limited as the operator, recorded in Ideawise Limited, with the headquarters country given in Hong Kong. The company also publishes a founding year in 2,015 to 2,017. Support runs through the channels in email, chat and help centre, so company and billing questions can be raised in writing or in chat.
How do I get help?+
email, chat and help centre lists email, chat, a help centre and the community. That mix matters for a service with auto-renewing paid tiers, since a billing question can be raised in writing by email and then followed up in chat. The help centre and community sit alongside those direct channels.
Sources
- fetish.com checked September 26, 2026
Backs: Audience focus, What is free, Categories, Support channels
“THE KINK-POSITIVE BDSM COMMUNITY FOR FETISH DATING”
- fetish.com/conditions checked September 26, 2026
Backs: Renewal and cancelling, Credit system, Pricing model, Plans, Privacy and data
“If you do not cancel a Paid Membership within the time frame you have chosen, it will be extended by the period of membership you have chosen”
- fetish.com/imprint-fetisch checked September 26, 2026
Backs: Headquarters, Legal entity
“Unit 603A, 6/F, Tower 1 Admiralty Center 18 Harcourt Road, Admiralty, Hong Kong”
- fetish.com/press checked September 26, 2026
Backs: Founded
“In 2017, the brand spanking new version of Fetish.com strutted its kinky stuff; footer: (c) 2015 - 2026 FETISH.com”
- fetish.com/what-we-offer checked September 26, 2026
Backs: Features, Profile verification
“Profile Verification”
Compiled from 5 source pages, checked September 26, 2026. We did not open an account.
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Fetish.com
Adults who want a kink-positive BDSM and fetish community with free messaging