First Affair review

Updated September 28, 2026 · FlingCue Editorial Team · Facts checked September 26, 2026

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Our verdict

First Affair suits adults who want a single account for affairs, casual encounters and partner swapping, and it lists Over 2,140,360 members (2026) behind the service.

Key facts

Best for
One discreet account for affairs, casual meets and partner swapping.
What is free
Free signup, search and view profiles; no sending messages (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
Profile verification
Women verify by phone or one-off 5.70 USD authenticity fee (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
Audience focus
Adults seeking affairs, casual encounters, partner swapping (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
Plans
Free tier; paid membership (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
Members
Over 2,140,360 members (2026) (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
Credit system
No credits; paid membership unlocks internal messaging (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
Privacy and data
No phone, address or IP stored; data not sold or shared (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
Categories
Casual, Discreet, Mature, Swinger (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
Legal entity
netforge GmbH & Co. KG (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
Support channels
Email, Help-centre (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
Pricing model
Free
Features
Mobile app, Verified profiles
Official website
firstaffair.com

Pros and cons

Pros

  • The free part is substantial: Free signup, search and view profiles; no sending messages, so a reader can size up the pool before paying.
  • No credits to manage, since messaging is bundled rather than sold message by message, No credits; paid membership unlocks internal messaging.
  • Privacy is documented in plain terms rather than left vague, No phone, address or IP stored; data not sold or shared.
  • app and verified profiles covers a phone app as well as verified profiles.
  • Several interests sit on one service, casual, discreet and mature, instead of a single specialist scene.

Cons

  • Contact is the paywall: Free signup, search and view profiles; no sending messages and No credits; paid membership unlocks internal messaging mean a free account can read profiles but not reply.
  • Only women are described as verifying, and the non-phone route carries a one-off authenticity fee, Women verify by phone or one-off 5.70 USD authenticity fee.
  • Phone and live chat are not among its support channels (email and help centre), so a billing question is answered in writing rather than in a call.
  • The plan summary carries no figure: Free tier; paid membership names only a free tier and a paid membership, so the monthly rate has to be read at signup.

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Who it suits

  • Readers who want one wide account rather than a narrow board: Adults seeking affairs, casual encounters, partner swapping covers several arrangements, while BDSM-baari stays a free-of-charge forum, Forum use is free of charge.
  • Anyone happy to browse at no cost and pay only when they want replies, Free signup, search and view profiles; no sending messages, a pattern Senior.dk Dating also follows with free signup and browsing, Free signup and browsing; contact needs paid VIP.
  • People who prefer a single membership to buying messages one by one, No credits; paid membership unlocks internal messaging, though EroFantasie gives registration and a first message free, Registration free, first message free.

Who should look elsewhere

  • Anyone who expects to message before paying: EroFantasie gives registration and a first message free, Registration free, first message free, while First Affair's Free signup, search and view profiles; no sending messages stops at viewing.
  • Readers who want live support by phone: phone is not among its support channels, email and help centre, and a free forum such as BDSM-baari, Forum use is free of charge, serves people who prefer community threads.

How it works

The service is aimed at Adults seeking affairs, casual encounters, partner swapping, so a single account covers an affair, a casual encounter or a partner-swapping scene. Scale is the headline figure: Over 2,140,360 members (2026). For a reader weighing audience size against the smaller specialist boards, that pool is the reason to look here first, and the casual, discreet and mature on offer mean you can browse across moods without switching services.

Members and plans

Free tier; paid membership is the shape of the offer: a free tier to look around, then a paid membership to talk. No credits; paid membership unlocks internal messaging means there is nothing to top up, so the decision is one subscription rather than a meter. Against that, Over 2,140,360 members (2026) signals a large pool and Adults seeking affairs, casual encounters, partner swapping keeps the mix broad rather than tied to one arrangement.

Who runs it

The operator is netforge GmbH & Co. KG, named at the point of signup. Support runs on email and help centre, so email and a help centre carry the service. Phone and live chat are not among those channels, which means a question about a charge should be put in writing and kept on record. A named company and a written channel matter most here, since readers weigh billing and privacy as closely as price.

How First Affair compares

Where First Affair is available

Available
Andorra, Austria, Belgium, France, Germany, Italy, Luxembourg, Netherlands, Spain, Switzerland, United Arab Emirates, United Kingdom, United States

Countries from the brand (Source, checked September 26, 2026)

Frequently asked questions

What does First Affair cost a month?+

The published structure is Free tier; paid membership: a free tier alongside a paid membership. No credits; paid membership unlocks internal messaging confirms nothing is sold in credits, so the cost is one subscription. Comparable listings on this comparison site start at €0.08 a month and reach €162.69.

What is free on a free account?+

Free signup, search and view profiles; no sending messages is the free part, and it stops before messaging. No credits; paid membership unlocks internal messaging puts internal messaging inside a paid membership, so a free account can read profiles across a pool of Over 2,140,360 members (2026) but cannot reply. EroFantasie differs, Registration free, first message free.

How does profile verification work?+

Verified profiles are part of the feature list, app and verified profiles. Women verify by phone or one-off 5.70 USD authenticity fee describes the check: women confirm by phone or through a one-off authenticity fee. The published details cover that group only, so how everyone else is confirmed is not set out in the same terms.

Do I have to buy credits to send messages?+

No. No credits; paid membership unlocks internal messaging sets out that there are no credits and that a paid membership unlocks internal messaging. That keeps billing to a single subscription rather than a per-message meter, which suits readers who dislike topping up in the middle of a conversation.

Is there an app I can use on my phone?+

app and verified profiles is the published feature list, and it includes an app as well as verified profiles. No phone, address or IP stored; data not sold or shared adds a separate point for phone users: no phone number, address or IP address is stored. Verification by phone remains an option for women, Women verify by phone or one-off 5.70 USD authenticity fee.

What happens to my data?+

The stated position is No phone, address or IP stored; data not sold or shared. For readers who rank privacy above profile detail, that is the clearest part of the offer, and it fits the discreet focus, casual, discreet and mature, on a pool of Over 2,140,360 members (2026). The stated audience, Adults seeking affairs, casual encounters, partner swapping, completes the picture.

Who operates the site and how do I reach support?+

The operator is netforge GmbH & Co. KG, named in the signup material. Support runs on email and help centre, so questions go by email or through the help centre, and both are worth keeping a written record of. Chat is not among those channels.

Which arrangements is the site aimed at?+

The stated audience is Adults seeking affairs, casual encounters, partner swapping. The published focus covers casual, discreet and mature, so several distinct interests sit on one service. A reader who wants only one of those scenes may find a specialist board a tighter fit, such as BDSM-baari, Forum use is free of charge.

Sources

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First Affair

One discreet account for affairs, casual meets and partner swapping.

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