Updated September 28, 2026 · FlingCue Editorial Team
HePays vs SugarDaddyPlanet
Facts checked September 26, 2026.
What sets them apart
| Compare |  HePays |  SugarDaddyPlanet |
|---|---|---|
| What is free | Free to join; messaging free if your minimum is 0 | Free to join; sugar babies full free access |
| Profile verification | Video-call identity check, optional gov ID upload | On-request video call or gesture photo check |
| Audience focus | Sugar daddy, findom and millionaire dating | Adults 18+ in the sugar lifestyle |
| Plans | One-time lifetime, Bitcoin only | Bronze monthly, Silver quarterly, Gold annual |
| Members | 500K+ members, 62% women | 250,000+ members (Sep 2026) |
| Credit system | Credits to message; earnings withdrawable | No credit system, unlimited messages |
| Renewal and cancelling | Lifetime, no renewal; no refunds | Self-serve cancel; auto-renew off; 14-day refund |
| Privacy and data | Data not shared; self-service deletion | User-controlled visibility; data not rented or sold |
| Categories | Sugar, Fetish | Sugar, Discreet, Mature |
| Monthly price from | Not confirmed | €59 |
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Key differences
- Support channels: only HePays offers Community.
- HePays is available in 17 more countries.
- Features: only HePays offers App.
- Categories: only HePays offers Fetish.
- Categories: only SugarDaddyPlanet offers Discreet, Mature.
Our verdict on each
HePays
HePays suits adults who want a sugar, findom or millionaire dating pool and do not mind a credit balance instead of a monthly bill, since access is bought up front and not renewed.
SugarDaddyPlanet
SugarDaddyPlanet is built for adults in the sugar lifestyle, and that focus is clear, but the price is the trade-off: fees of €59 sit at the expensive end. Paying members get unlimited messages, visibility they control, and a self-serve exit, so the budget matters more here than the feature list.
Score breakdown
| Area | HePays | SugarDaddyPlanet |
|---|---|---|
| Cost | Not confirmed | 8.0Fees of €59 sit above the upper quartile of listed prices (€20.65), the weak point here. |
| Offer | Not confirmed | 8.8 |
| Trust | Not confirmed | 8.0 |
Where they rank in our lists
| Ranking | HePays | SugarDaddyPlanet |
|---|---|---|
| Hookup sites and apps | 364 of 478 | 272 of 478 |
| Sugar daddy and sugar dating sites | 9 of 21 | 8 of 21 |
| Free hookup sites | 288 of 358 | 238 of 358 |
Availability and regulation
Available in 6 countries for both. Additional countries for HePays: 17.
What each covers
| Categories | HePays | SugarDaddyPlanet |
|---|---|---|
| Discreet | No | Yes |
| Mature | No | Yes |
| Fetish | Yes | No |
| Sugar | Yes | Yes |
Every fact side by side
| Fact | HePays | SugarDaddyPlanet |
|---|---|---|
| Pricing model | Free | Free |
| Features | App, Verified profilesCovers more | Verified profiles |
| Legal entity | PalmRise S.R.O. | Stella And Pow OU |
| Headquarters | Czechia | Estonia |
| Founded | Not confirmed | 2025 |
| Support channels | Email, Help centre, CommunityCovers more | Email, Help centre |
Where each stands against the rest
| Fact | HePays | SugarDaddyPlanet | Median |
|---|---|---|---|
| Monthly price from | Not confirmed | €59highest quarter | €14 |
Median across 31 listed casual dating sites.
Pros and cons
HePays
Pros
- Access is One-time lifetime, Bitcoin only, so there is no renewal to track after the payment and no monthly bill to budget.
- Joining is Free to join; messaging free if your minimum is 0, which keeps the entry point low before any credits are bought or a plan chosen.
- Messaging runs on Credits to message; earnings withdrawable, so a message is tied to credits held rather than to a recurring fee.
Cons
- Payment is One-time lifetime, Bitcoin only, so a card on file from another country cannot be used, unlike EroFantasie, where Registration free, first message free.
- The price is not quoted monthly: access is One-time lifetime, Bitcoin only, so it cannot be set against a monthly figure like €14.
- The free part stops at the account, since Credits to message; earnings withdrawable puts every message behind credits while joining stays Free to join; messaging free if your minimum is 0.
SugarDaddyPlanet
Pros
- Joining is free and sugar babies get full free access (Free to join; sugar babies full free access), so that side of the audience never pays.
- Paying members get No credit system, unlimited messages, so nothing goes on credits and messages are not capped.
- Visibility is controlled by the user and data is not rented or sold (User-controlled visibility; data not rented or sold).
Cons
- Fees of €59 sit above the upper quartile of prices listed here (€20.65), and far above EroFantasie at €0.67 to €1.50.
- Free access covers joining and sugar babies only (Free to join; sugar babies full free access), so everyone else pays the fee from the start.
- Support runs on email and help centre only, with no phone line or live chat for billing questions.
Who each suits
HePays
Who it suits
- Adults looking for a focused pool built around Sugar daddy, findom and millionaire dating, rather than a general membership mix at all.
- People who prefer buying access once, since the plan is One-time lifetime, Bitcoin only and nothing renews after the payment.
- Readers comfortable holding a balance for every message, because messaging follows Credits to message; earnings withdrawable rather than a monthly plan.
Who should look elsewhere
- Anyone who wants monthly billing can look at EroFantasie, where Registration free, first message free, since HePays access is One-time lifetime, Bitcoin only.
- Readers who want a free place to browse at length may prefer BDSM-baari, where Forum use is free of charge.
- People after a senior-focused pool can compare Senior.dk Dating, where Free signup and browsing; contact needs paid VIP, rather than Sugar daddy, findom and millionaire dating.
SugarDaddyPlanet
Who it suits
- Adults in the sugar lifestyle, which is the defined audience (Adults 18+ in the sugar lifestyle).
- Sugar babies, who get full free access (Free to join; sugar babies full free access).
- Members who want unlimited messages and a self-serve exit (No credit system, unlimited messages, Self-serve cancel; auto-renew off; 14-day refund).
Who should look elsewhere
- Readers on a tight budget: EroFantasie charges €0.67 to €1.50 against €59 here.
- Readers after a different audience: Senior.dk Dating charges DKK 2.30, while the audience here is fixed to the sugar lifestyle (Adults 18+ in the sugar lifestyle).
- Anyone who needs phone support, since contact runs on email and help centre only.
Current offers
HePays
Current offer
Bonus
Free lifetime access via video verification: Free
Join Telegram @meetrichmen, video call identity check, 24-48h
Source, checked September 26, 2026
Country by country
| Country | HePays | SugarDaddyPlanet |
|---|---|---|
| Australia | Yes | No |
| Brazil | Yes | No |
| Canada | Yes | No |
| Colombia | Yes | No |
| Denmark | Yes | No |
| Ghana | Yes | No |
| India | Yes | No |
| Indonesia | Yes | No |
8 of 23 countries where either is available.
Questions about each
HePays
How much does HePays cost?+
Access is One-time lifetime, Bitcoin only, a single payment in Bitcoin with no renewal, so nothing recurs after the purchase. Because the price is not quoted monthly, it cannot be set against the site median of €14 without conversion. Message credits sit on top of access rather than inside it.
What is free on HePays?+
Joining and browsing are covered by Free to join; messaging free if your minimum is 0. Sending messages is a different matter, because Credits to message; earnings withdrawable places messaging behind credits. The free part covers the account rather than the conversation, which differs from EroFantasie at Registration free, first message free and from forum use at Forum use is free of charge.
SugarDaddyPlanet
What does SugarDaddyPlanet cost a month?+
Fees start at €59. The plans are Bronze monthly, Silver quarterly, Gold annual, so a monthly option sits alongside longer terms. Across the sites compared here, the upper quartile of listed prices is €20.65, which puts this one at the expensive end. Paying members are not buying message credits on top of the fee.
Can I use it without paying anything?+
Joining is free, and sugar babies get full free access (Free to join; sugar babies full free access), so that side of the audience pays nothing. Other members need a plan, with fees of €59. Members who pay get No credit system, unlimited messages, so the subscription is not spent on credits.