Updated September 28, 2026 · FlingCue Editorial Team
MySugardaddy vs SecretBenefits
Facts checked September 26, 2026.
What sets them apart
| Compare |  MySugardaddy |  SecretBenefits |
|---|---|---|
| What is free | Free registration; women send free kiss requests | Free signup; contact, photos, favorites need payment |
| Profile verification | SMS, ID and reality check, 3 steps | Member photos verified, best effort |
| Audience focus | Wealthy men and ambitious women | Sugar daddies and sugar babies |
| Members | 7.03 million members (June 2023) | Millions of like-minded people |
| Credit system | 20 credits per unlock, 5 for VIP | Credits purchased for paid features |
| Renewal and cancelling | 14-day withdrawal; auto-renews monthly, cancel online | Cancel any time via Account page or contact |
| Privacy and data | Privacy first, discreet, pseudonymous profiles | No background checks; profiles not public |
| Plans | Basic free; VIP 1/3/6/12 months; Diamond monthly | Not confirmed |
Same on both: Categories (Sugar).
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Key differences
- Support channels: only MySugardaddy offers Email.
- MySugardaddy is available in 6 more countries.
- Features: only MySugardaddy offers App.
Our verdict on each
MySugardaddy
MySugardaddy suits adults who want a purpose-built sugar arrangement and do not mind paying credits to message. The niche is stated as sugar, registration is Free registration; women send free kiss requests, and the audience is Wealthy men and ambitious women. Support runs on email and help centre.
SecretBenefits
SecretBenefits suits adults who want a narrow, sugar-only audience and are willing to pay credits for the steps that follow signup.
Score breakdown
| Area | MySugardaddy | SecretBenefits |
|---|---|---|
| Offer | 8.8 | Not confirmed |
| Trust | 8.8 | Not confirmed |
Availability and regulation
Available in 1 country for both. Additional countries for MySugardaddy: 9. Additional countries for SecretBenefits: 3.
Where they rank in our lists
| Ranking | MySugardaddy | SecretBenefits |
|---|---|---|
| Hookup sites and apps | 236 of 478 | 431 of 478 |
| Sugar daddy and sugar dating sites | 4 of 21 | 14 of 21 |
| Free hookup sites | 202 of 358 | 327 of 358 |
Every fact side by side
| Fact | MySugardaddy | SecretBenefits |
|---|---|---|
| Pricing model | Free | Free |
| Features | App, Verified profilesCovers more | Verified profiles |
| Legal entity | SDC Ventures GmbH | Not confirmed |
| Headquarters | Germany | Not confirmed |
| Founded | 2010 | Not confirmed |
| Support channels | Email, Help centreCovers more | Help centre |
Pros and cons
MySugardaddy
Pros
- Registration is free and women can send kiss requests at no cost, per Free registration; women send free kiss requests
- The audience is Wealthy men and ambitious women, so the pool is not general dating
- Verification runs SMS, ID and reality check, 3 steps, adding checks beyond a photo
Cons
- Only sugar is listed, so anyone outside that niche has little reason to be here
- Unlocks cost 20 credits per unlock, 5 for VIP, so contact is not free for everyone
- Terms state 14-day withdrawal; auto-renews monthly, cancel online, and payments renew until a member cancels
SecretBenefits
Pros
- The audience is defined as Sugar daddies and sugar babies, so the pool is built around that arrangement type rather than a general mix.
- Verified profiles are listed as a feature (verified profiles), and 88.9% of the brands in the sugar dating ranking carry it too.
- The listed model is free, matching 100% of the brands in the same ranking, so a free account is a normal starting point here.
Cons
- The free tier ends at signup: contact, photos and favorites all need payment (Free signup; contact, photos, favorites need payment), so a free account does not reach messaging.
- Spending runs on credits purchased for paid features (Credits purchased for paid features), where EroFantasie includes a free first message (Registration free, first message free).
- Support runs on help centre only, which keeps most questions to self service material.
Who each suits
MySugardaddy
Who it suits
- Adults who want a sugar-focused audience rather than general dating
- Members comfortable paying credits to message, since 20 credits per unlock, 5 for VIP applies
- Readers who want verification beyond a photo, given SMS, ID and reality check, 3 steps
Who should look elsewhere
- Adults wanting a casual hookup focus, where EroFantasie suits the brief better
- People who want to contact without paying, since 20 credits per unlock, 5 for VIP governs unlocks
SecretBenefits
Who it suits
- Adults who want a defined sugar dating audience rather than a general pool (Sugar daddies and sugar babies).
- Members happy to register at no cost and buy credits only for the actions they choose (Free signup; contact, photos, favorites need payment, Credits purchased for paid features).
- Readers who want to leave on their own terms, since you can cancel any time via the Account page or contact (Cancel any time via Account page or contact).
Who should look elsewhere
- Adults who want a free opening message before paying: EroFantasie includes that (Registration free, first message free).
- Readers who want to browse at no cost: Senior.dk Dating offers free signup and browsing, with contact on paid VIP (Free signup and browsing; contact needs paid VIP).
- People who prefer a community space: BDSM-baari is free of charge for forum use (Forum use is free of charge).
Country by country
| Country | MySugardaddy | SecretBenefits |
|---|---|---|
| Argentina | Yes | No |
| Australia | No | Yes |
| Brazil | Yes | No |
| Canada | No | Yes |
| Chile | Yes | No |
| Colombia | Yes | No |
| France | Yes | No |
| Germany | Yes | No |
8 of 13 countries where either is available.
Questions about each
MySugardaddy
What does MySugardaddy cost?+
Registration is Free registration; women send free kiss requests, and paid options are Basic free; VIP 1/3/6/12 months; Diamond monthly. Conversations are charged on 20 credits per unlock, 5 for VIP, which sets the credits per unlock and the lower VIP rate. So the bill has two parts: a subscription if you upgrade, and credits for each conversation you open.
How do I cancel a MySugardaddy subscription?+
The published terms state 14-day withdrawal; auto-renews monthly, cancel online. The withdrawal window applies, and the renewal is monthly until cancellation. Cancellation is completed in the account, so keep a note of the date if you want the renewal stopped before it runs again.
SecretBenefits
How much does SecretBenefits cost?+
Signup is free, but contact, photos and favorites each need payment (Free signup; contact, photos, favorites need payment). Payment runs on credits purchased for paid features (Credits purchased for paid features), so spending follows use rather than a single listed fee. For scale, monthly starting prices across the listings sit at €14 in the middle, with €20.65 at the upper end.
What can I do at no cost?+
Registration is the free part. The listed model is free, and the terms confirm free signup, with contact, photos and favorites all needing payment (Free signup; contact, photos, favorites need payment). Compare that with EroFantasie, where registration is free and the opening message is free too (Registration free, first message free), or BDSM-baari, where forum use is free of charge (Forum use is free of charge).