Second Love review

Updated September 28, 2026 · FlingCue Editorial Team · Facts checked September 26, 2026

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Our verdict

Second Love suits adults who want a discreet extramarital connection and can afford a higher monthly fee than most sites here. Fees start at €25.83 a month, and in return you get profiles reviewed by staff, a free membership option and support by email, phone and help centre.

Key facts

Best for
Discreet extramarital daters who want staff reviewed profiles and can afford a higher monthly fee.
Monthly price from
€25.83 (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
What is free
Free profile; free membership valid 3 years (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
Profile verification
Profiles individually reviewed by staff (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
Audience focus
Couples seeking discreet extramarital flings (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
Plans
Free; Premium 1, 3, 6 month and promo 2 month (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
Members
25,000 Flemish members (3 May 2011) (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
Renewal and cancelling
Auto-renews; stop by email 48h-6 working days ahead (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
Privacy and data
Payment data not stored; data not shared with third parties (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
Categories
Discreet, Swinger (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
Legal entity
Brunique b.v. (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
Headquarters
Netherlands (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
Support channels
Email, Phone, Help-centre (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
Pricing model
Free
Features
Verified profiles
Official website
secondlove.nl

Pros and cons

Pros

  • A free membership is included, so a profile can be held without paying: Free profile; free membership valid 3 years.
  • Profiles are reviewed individually by staff, a step many services leave to automation: Profiles individually reviewed by staff.
  • Payment data is not stored and data is not shared with third parties: Payment data not stored; data not shared with third parties.
  • Support runs on email, phone and help centre, so a phone conversation is an option as well as email.

Cons

  • Monthly fees start at €25.83, above the site median of €14 and well above EroFantasie at €0.67 to €1.50 or BDSM-baari at €0.83 to €2.50.
  • Subscriptions renew on their own and stopping takes an email sent ahead of the renewal date: Auto-renews; stop by email 48h-6 working days ahead.
  • The only membership figure on record is 25,000 Flemish members (3 May 2011), a dated snapshot rather than a live count.
  • The audience is narrow by design, Couples seeking discreet extramarital flings, so anyone wanting a broader mix of daters will find a thinner pool.

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Who it suits

  • Adults in a relationship looking for something discreet on the side: Couples seeking discreet extramarital flings.
  • Readers who want a person, not a filter, to check a profile: Profiles individually reviewed by staff.
  • Readers who want to start at no cost and decide about paying later: Free profile; free membership valid 3 years.

Who should look elsewhere

  • Readers who want the lowest monthly fee: EroFantasie lists fees of €0.67 to €1.50 against €25.83 here.
  • Readers after a specific scene rather than extramarital dating: BDSM-baari lists fees of €0.83 to €2.50 for a different kind of site.
  • Readers on a tight budget: Senior.dk Dating lists a monthly fee of DKK 2.30, far below this service.

Using the service

Second Love is built for Couples seeking discreet extramarital flings. The audience is adults who are already in a relationship and want something discreet outside it, rather than people starting something new. That framing is the main thing that separates this service from the sites listed beside it, and it decides quickly whether the pool here is useful to you. The membership figure on record is 25,000 Flemish members (3 May 2011). It is a dated, Flemish number, so read it as a snapshot of a past moment rather than a live count of who is online. Anyone weighing the service should keep that in mind when judging activity.

Billing and cancelling

On the data side, Payment data not stored; data not shared with third parties. Payment details are not kept on file and personal data is not passed to third parties. For a service whose audience depends on nobody reading along, that is the detail worth checking before you sign up. Cancelling works by email, and the terms are Auto-renews; stop by email 48h-6 working days ahead. The subscription carries on until you act, and the email has to land before the renewal date rather than on it. Put a reminder in your calendar when you start a paid term, because the default is another charge.

What is free and what costs

Free profile; free membership valid 3 years, so setting up and keeping a profile costs nothing and the membership stays valid for a set stretch. You can look at the service without spending anything. Paid access starts at €25.83 a month, and the terms on offer are Free; Premium 1, 3, 6 month and promo 2 month. Read the two numbers together rather than separately. The free part is a real floor, while the paid step is one of the pricier ones in this group, so a long term is a large commitment rather than a cheap monthly top up.

Members and plans

Everyone here sits in the same box: Couples seeking discreet extramarital flings. If that describes your situation, the site makes sense straight away. If it does not, the plans below will not change your answer. The community as described is 25,000 Flemish members (3 May 2011), a dated figure from the Flemish market, so live activity cannot be read from it. The terms available are Free; Premium 1, 3, 6 month and promo 2 month, which means the length you commit to is your choice, from a short promo term to a longer block.

The company behind it

The service runs under Brunique b.v., based in the Netherlands. That is the name printed on the contact details, so the company taking your payment is identifiable before you start rather than after. Support runs on email, phone and help centre, with no live chat in that list. Email is the main route, and a help centre is there for questions you can read yourself. Phone support carries extra weight here, since a spoken conversation leaves fewer written traces than a message thread.

How Second Love compares

Where Second Love is available

Available
Belgium, Netherlands

Countries from the brand (Source, checked September 26, 2026)

Frequently asked questions

What does Second Love cost per month?+

Paid access starts at €25.83 a month. Free; Premium 1, 3, 6 month and promo 2 month sets out the terms, including longer blocks and a promo length. Membership itself is free, so a profile costs nothing to keep and the decision to pay can come later. The free part is the floor rather than the whole service.

Is there a free membership on Second Love?+

Yes. Free profile; free membership valid 3 years describes a free profile and a free membership that stays valid for a set period, so you can use the service without paying anything. Paid terms are then offered on top of that free base. If your aim is to look around first, no spend is required to get started.

How do I cancel a Second Love subscription?+

Subscriptions renew on their own, and the terms are Auto-renews; stop by email 48h-6 working days ahead. The stopping request has to reach the service by email before the renewal date, not at the moment you decide to leave. Set a reminder for yourself so the message is sent with time to spare.

Are profiles checked on Second Love?+

Yes. Profiles individually reviewed by staff says profiles are reviewed individually by staff, and verified profiles are listed as a feature. A person reading each submission takes more time than an automatic check, so a new profile may wait before it goes live. What you get is the assurance that someone actually read it.

Who is Second Love aimed at?+

The stated audience is Couples seeking discreet extramarital flings. The focus is narrow on purpose: adults in relationships who want something discreet on the side. Single readers who want to date openly will find a thinner pool here, and the site's own framing is the clearest guide to who you will meet.

Who runs Second Love and where is it based?+

The service is operated by Brunique b.v., based in the Netherlands. Both details appear on the contact information, so the company behind the billing can be identified before you subscribe. That is the first place to send a question about a payment, a profile or a cancellation request.

How do I reach Second Love support?+

Support runs on email, phone and help centre, with no live chat in that list. Email is the main route and a help centre covers questions you can look up yourself. Phone support is worth noting for a discreet service, since a spoken call leaves fewer traces than a written exchange.

How private is my data on Second Love?+

Payment data not stored; data not shared with third parties covers the billing side: payment data is not stored and data is not shared with third parties. For a service used by people who do not want their interest advertised, that is a reasonable starting point. Think about what you upload before you add anything you would not want kept.

Sources

Compiled from 6 source pages, checked September 26, 2026. We did not open an account.

Second Love

Discreet extramarital daters who want staff reviewed profiles and can afford a higher monthly fee.

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