Comeandflirt review
Updated September 28, 2026 · FlingCue Editorial Team · Facts checked September 26, 2026
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Our verdict
Comeandflirt suits adults who want a straightforward heterosexual dating site and do not mind paying for a subscription. It has run since 2010 and charges from €16.50 a month, well above EroFantasie and BDSM-baari, while women use it without paying.
Key facts
- Best for
- Adults wanting a paid heterosexual dating site where women register and use it free.
- Monthly price from
- €16.50 (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
- What is free
- Free for women; free signup, browse, 8 messages (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
- Profile verification
- 18+ declared; photos reviewed before publishing (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
- Audience focus
- Adults 18+ heterosexual dating; women free (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
- Plans
- 3 days, 7 days, 14 days, 1, 3, 6 months (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
- Members
- 1,155 online users (2026-09-26) (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
- Renewal and cancelling
- Auto-renews; cancel in account; 14-day withdrawal (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
- Privacy and data
- EU-only data storage; access, erase, portability (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
- Categories
- Casual, Discreet, Mature (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
- Legal entity
- SALAMANDRA WEB, S.L. (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
- Headquarters
- Spain (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
- Founded
- 2010 (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
- Support channels
- Email, Help-centre (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
- Pricing model
- Free
- Features
- Verified profiles
- Official website
- comeandflirt.com
Pros and cons
Pros
- Free for women; free signup, browse, 8 messages sets out free signup, browsing and a limited number of messages for women.
- Profiles are checked before they appear: 18+ declared; photos reviewed before publishing covers a declared adult age and photo review, and verified profiles lists verified profiles.
- Data is stored in the EU, with access, erase and portability set out in EU-only data storage; access, erase, portability.
- Cancellation is handled inside the account, and Auto-renews; cancel in account; 14-day withdrawal sets out a withdrawal period next to the auto-renewal rule.
Cons
- The starting monthly price of €16.50 places Comeandflirt at 76 of 125 sites on that measure, above the site median of €14.
- Auto-renewal is the default, since Auto-renews; cancel in account; 14-day withdrawal means a subscription bills again until you cancel in the account.
- Support runs on email and help centre only, so there is no phone line or live chat listed.
- The audience is narrow: Adults 18+ heterosexual dating; women free sets the service as heterosexual dating for adults.
Who it suits
- Women who want to sign up, browse and send messages at no cost on a heterosexual dating site (Adults 18+ heterosexual dating; women free).
- Adults who prefer photos to be reviewed before a profile is published (18+ declared; photos reviewed before publishing).
- Readers who want data held in the EU with access, erase and portability available (EU-only data storage; access, erase, portability).
Who should look elsewhere
- Readers on a tight budget, since EroFantasie charges €0.67 to €1.50 a month.
- Members happy with a smaller platform, since BDSM-baari charges €0.83 to €2.50 a month.
- Readers after a senior audience, where Senior.dk Dating starts at DKK 2.30 a month.
Members and plans
Comeandflirt is built for Adults 18+ heterosexual dating; women free, with women on the free side of the deal. Activity is modest in scale, and 1,155 online users (2026-09-26) gives the online figure on the site. Payment is by subscription, sold in the lengths listed as 3 days, 7 days, 14 days, 1, 3, 6 months, so both a short block and a long one are on the table.
Privacy, billing and cancelling
Data is held in the EU, and EU-only data storage; access, erase, portability also covers access, erase and portability. On billing, Auto-renews; cancel in account; 14-day withdrawal governs the relationship: subscriptions auto-renew, cancellation runs through the account, and a withdrawal period applies.
Who runs it
Comeandflirt is run by SALAMANDRA WEB, S.L., with its headquarters in Spain. The company has been trading since 2010. Support is handled over email and help centre, which means email and a help centre.
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Where Comeandflirt is available
- Available
- France
Countries from the brand (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
Frequently asked questions
How much does Comeandflirt cost?+
Subscriptions start at €16.50 a month, and the term lengths listed are 3 days, 7 days, 14 days, 1, 3, 6 months. Comeandflirt ranks 76 of 125 sites on that starting price, against a site median of €14. Read it as a paid subscription rather than a free service.
What can you do on Comeandflirt without paying?+
Free for women; free signup, browse, 8 messages covers the free side: signup, browsing and a limited number of messages for women. Adults 18+ heterosexual dating; women free also records that women are free, so a paying subscription is aimed at men. Check the message cap before you plan a long conversation.
Does Comeandflirt check profiles?+
Comeandflirt runs a check before a profile goes live. 18+ declared; photos reviewed before publishing states that members declare they are adults and that photos are reviewed before publishing, and verified profiles lists verified profiles among its features. Read profiles with care before arranging to meet.
Where is my data stored on Comeandflirt?+
EU-only data storage; access, erase, portability covers the main points: data is stored in the EU, and you can ask for access, erasure or portability. The operator is SALAMANDRA WEB, S.L., registered in Spain, so the storage location sits inside the EU.
How do I cancel a Comeandflirt subscription?+
Auto-renews; cancel in account; 14-day withdrawal sets the terms: subscriptions auto-renew, cancellation runs through your account, and a withdrawal period applies. Turn renewal off from the account rather than assuming access ends on its own, and note the renewal date when you sign up.
Who is Comeandflirt aimed at?+
Adults 18+ heterosexual dating; women free describes the audience as adults in heterosexual dating, with women free. The listed angles are casual, discreet and mature, which covers casual, discreet and mature daters. If you want a particular community, check those angles before you pay for a subscription.
How do I reach Comeandflirt support?+
Support runs on email and help centre, so you are writing to email or working through the help centre rather than reaching a phone line or live chat. Write your question in full, because those are the routes listed. The operator behind the site is SALAMANDRA WEB, S.L.
Is Comeandflirt an established site?+
The operator, SALAMANDRA WEB, S.L., has traded since 2010 from ES, and 1,155 online users (2026-09-26) gives the online figure, which sits on the modest side. Look at the current number before you commit, because it shifts through the day.
Sources
- comeandflirt.com/faq.html checked September 26, 2026
Backs: What is free, Members, Pricing model, Categories
“The website is free for women.”
- comeandflirt.com/index.php checked September 26, 2026
Backs: Audience focus, Renewal and cancelling, Features, Plans, Monthly price from, Support channels, Profile verification
“The "Premium" offer is free for women and paying for men and couples.”
- comeandflirt.com/index.php checked September 26, 2026
Backs: Founded, Headquarters, Legal entity
“The site comeandflirt.com is published by the Company SALAMANDRA WEB, S.L.”
- comeandflirt.com/index.php checked September 26, 2026
Backs: Privacy and data
“Your data is only intended for the Company and its service providers located exclusively in the European Union.”
Compiled from 4 source pages, checked September 26, 2026. We did not open an account.
Comeandflirt
Adults wanting a paid heterosexual dating site where women register and use it free.