Updated September 28, 2026 · FlingCue Editorial Team
Crossdressing Fun vs Fetisch.de
Facts checked September 26, 2026.
What sets them apart
| Compare | Crossdressing Fun ReviewVisitVisit |  Fetisch.de |
|---|---|---|
| Profile verification | Strict verification for members | Free authenticity check (#SSC) with green tick |
| Audience focus | Crossdresser dating community | Adults 18+; BDSM and fetish community |
| Members | 1.1M members | Many hundreds of thousands of members |
| Categories | Trans, LGBTQ | Fetish, Casual, Swinger, Trans, LGBTQCovers more |
| What is free | Not confirmed | Free registration, profiles, messages, chat, forum |
| Plans | Not confirmed | Free, Premium, VIP, Dominatrix |
| Credit system | Not confirmed | Points system, no cash payout of credits |
| Renewal and cancelling | Not confirmed | Auto-renews; 14-day withdrawal; cancel to term end |
| Privacy and data | Not confirmed | Data processing incl. outside EEA with consent |
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Our verdict on each
Crossdressing Fun
Crossdressing Fun is built for adults who want a crossdresser dating community with trans and lgbtq audiences on one site, rather than a general app. Its 1.1M members is the standout number, and it holds Strict verification for members that shapes who you actually see.
Fetisch.de
Fetisch.de fits adults who want a BDSM and fetish community with real depth and a long track record.
Score breakdown
| Area | Crossdressing Fun | Fetisch.de |
|---|---|---|
| Offer | Not confirmed | 10.0 |
| Trust | Not confirmed | 9.2 |
How they place
| Ranking | Crossdressing Fun | Fetisch.de |
|---|---|---|
| LGBTQ+ and trans dating | 11 of 90 | 18 of 90 |
| Trans dating sites | 6 of 50 | 14 of 50 |
Only here
Only Crossdressing Fun
Nothing extra
Only Fetisch.de
Fetish, Casual, Swinger
What each covers
| Categories | Crossdressing Fun | Fetisch.de |
|---|---|---|
| Casual | No | Yes |
| LGBTQ | Yes | Yes |
| Fetish | No | Yes |
| Swinger | No | Yes |
| Trans | Yes | Yes |
Every fact side by side
| Fact | Crossdressing Fun | Fetisch.de |
|---|---|---|
| Pricing model | Not confirmed | Free |
| Features | Not confirmed | App, Verified profiles |
| Legal entity | Not confirmed | Ideawise Limited |
| Headquarters | Not confirmed | Hong Kong |
| Founded | Not confirmed | 2004 |
| Support channels | Not confirmed | Email, Chat, Phone, Help centre, Community |
Pros and cons
Crossdressing Fun
Pros
- A clear focus: the audience is listed as a Crossdresser dating community rather than a general mix
- Size: 1.1M members across the community
- Screening: Strict verification for members, which cuts down on unvetted sign ups
Cons
- Screening is described as strict rather than photo based, so genuine members meet a longer path in than with Photo verification on every profile
- Audience coverage is limited to the trans and lgbtq labels in trans and lgbtq, so other audiences sit outside the community
- Narrow focus by design, so anyone wanting broad mainstream appeal will find a smaller pool than the 1.1M members headline suggests
Fetisch.de
Pros
- Membership stands at Many hundreds of thousands of members, and the service has run since 2004.
- Nothing has to be spent for the basics: the model is free, and Free registration, profiles, messages, chat, forum sit outside the paid plans, where Senior.dk Dating needs a paid VIP to make contact.
- The feature set covers app and verified profiles, and profile verification is Free authenticity check (#SSC) with green tick.
Cons
- Paid tiers are layered: Free, Premium, VIP, Dominatrix sit on top of free, so a reader who wants extras moves past the basics quickly.
- Billing is easy to leave running: Auto-renews; 14-day withdrawal; cancel to term end.
- Credits are not money back: Points system, no cash payout of credits.
Who each suits
Crossdressing Fun
Who it suits
- Adults looking for a Crossdresser dating community rather than a broad dating app
- People who put screening first and value Strict verification for members
- Readers comparing scale, since 1.1M members gives a size to weigh
Who should look elsewhere
- Adults wanting photo based checks like Photo verification on every profile instead of Strict verification for members
- Readers who want fraud tooling closer to Verified-photo filter; anti-fraud profile blocking
- Anyone outside a trans and lgbtq focused Crossdresser dating community
Fetisch.de
Who it suits
- Adults who want a BDSM and fetish community rather than general dating: Adults 18+; BDSM and fetish community.
- Readers who want the core of the site reachable without a paid tier, Free registration, profiles, messages, chat, forum.
- People who want an authenticity check on profiles as a normal part of the service, Free authenticity check (#SSC) with green tick.
Who should look elsewhere
- Anyone who expects contact to be the paid part: Senior.dk Dating requires a paid VIP to get in touch, and here messages sit in Free registration, profiles, messages, chat, forum.
- Readers who only want discussion threads: BDSM-baari keeps Forum use is free of charge, which suits a forum user rather than a profile browser.
- Anyone who wants to test a single approach elsewhere first: EroFantasie offers Registration free, first message free, so one opening line costs nothing over there.
Country by country
| Country | Crossdressing Fun | Fetisch.de |
|---|---|---|
| Austria | No | Yes |
| Canada | No | Yes |
| Germany | No | Yes |
| Ireland | No | Yes |
| Switzerland | No | Yes |
| United Kingdom | No | Yes |
| United States | No | Yes |
Questions about each
Crossdressing Fun
Who is Crossdressing Fun aimed at?+
It is listed as a Crossdresser dating community, so the audience is defined rather than general. The trans and lgbtq labels include trans and lgbtq audiences inside the same community. That focus is the main reason to pick it over a broad mainstream app.
How large is the community?+
The community lists 1.1M members. For a niche focus that is a substantial pool to browse. If you want a like for like size check, compare it with what general apps in the same comparison report.
Fetisch.de
How much does Fetisch.de cost, and what is included at no charge?+
The pricing model is free, and the plan list is Free, Premium, VIP, Dominatrix. The core of the site, Free registration, profiles, messages, chat, forum, is available without a paid tier, so nothing has to be spent to have a profile, browse or write a message. Paid options add extras on top of that base rather than unlocking basic contact.
How does billing work, and can I get a refund?+
Terms are Auto-renews; 14-day withdrawal; cancel to term end. That means a paid plan renews on its own, there is a withdrawal period after signing up, and a cancellation takes effect at the end of the term rather than immediately. Readers who want to stop should decide before a renewal rather than after one.
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