Updated September 28, 2026 · FlingCue Editorial Team
SexyLib vs SwingTowns
What sets them apart
| Compare | SexyLib ReviewVisitVisit |  SwingTowns |
|---|---|---|
| What is free | Free for women and couples; free messaging | Free registration; limited free membership |
| Profile verification | Optional profile certification with badge | Photo ID may be required; identity certification |
| Audience focus | Singles and couples seeking swinging encounters | Swingers, open-minded couples and singles |
| Plans | Monthly premium from 4.99 EUR | Free, monthly and lifetime |
| Members | 100K+ registered members (2026) | Millions of members |
| Privacy and data | No personal data collected, hosted in France | Content licence covers affiliate and partner sites |
| Categories | Swinger, Casual, Discreet | Discreet, Swinger, Fetish |
| Monthly price from | €4.99 | Not confirmed |
| Renewal and cancelling | Not confirmed | Auto-renews; purchases final, no refunds |
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Key differences
- SwingTowns scores higher overall: 9.6 vs 9.0.
- Support channels: only SwingTowns offers Email, Help centre.
- Categories: only SexyLib offers Casual.
- Categories: only SwingTowns offers Fetish.
Our verdict on each
SexyLib
SexyLib suits adults who want a swinging focus with a free entry point for women and couples, and it is one of the cheaper premium options in that category. It scores 8.1 overall, with premium starting at €4.99 and messaging free.
SwingTowns
SwingTowns suits adults who want a long-running swinger community and can start without paying.
Score breakdown
| Area | SexyLib | SwingTowns |
|---|---|---|
| Cost | 9.6Premium starts at €4.99, under the site median of €14 and the swinger median of €12.95. | Not confirmed |
| Offer | 8.2 | 9.5Higher |
| Trust | Not confirmed | 9.8 |
What each covers
| Categories | SexyLib | SwingTowns |
|---|---|---|
| Casual | Yes | No |
| Discreet | Yes | Yes |
| Fetish | No | Yes |
| Swinger | Yes | Yes |
Where they rank in our lists
| Ranking | SexyLib | SwingTowns |
|---|---|---|
| Hookup sites and apps | 103 of 478 | 139 of 478 |
| Affair and discreet dating | 29 of 125 | 37 of 125 |
| Swinger and couples sites | 3 of 52 | 9 of 52 |
| Free hookup sites | 78 of 358 | 105 of 358 |
Every fact side by side
| Fact | SexyLib | SwingTowns |
|---|---|---|
| Pricing model | Free | Free |
| Features | App, Verified profiles | App, Verified profiles |
| Legal entity | Not confirmed | Street Ink Corporation |
| Headquarters | France | United States |
| Founded | Not confirmed | 1999 |
| Support channels | Community | Email, Help centre, CommunityCovers more |
Where each stands against the rest
| Fact | SexyLib | SwingTowns | Median |
|---|---|---|---|
| Monthly price from | €4.99below the median | Not confirmed | €14 |
Median across 31 listed casual dating sites.
Pros and cons
SexyLib
Pros
- Women and couples get access at no cost and everyone gets free messaging (Free for women and couples; free messaging).
- Premium starts at €4.99, under the swinger category median of €12.95.
- A clear swinging focus in Singles and couples seeking swinging encounters, with discreet and casual niches listed.
Cons
- Profile certification is optional, so a badge appears on some profiles only.
- Support runs on community only, with no direct contact channel listed.
- Premium is the same single starting figure, with no cheaper trial tier listed alongside Monthly premium from 4.99 EUR.
SwingTowns
Pros
- Registration is free and free membership is limited, as Free registration; limited free membership sets out.
- The audience in Swingers, open-minded couples and singles names swingers, open-minded couples and singles, so more than one group is served.
- The plan list in Free, monthly and lifetime includes a lifetime entry, so a single payment is available.
Cons
- The content licence in Content licence covers affiliate and partner sites extends to affiliate and partner sites, so profile material is licensed beyond the main service.
- Support runs on email, help centre and community only, so a phone line and live chat are not among the listed channels.
- The free tier described in Free registration; limited free membership stops at registration and limited membership.
Who each suits
SexyLib
Who it suits
- Women and couples who can browse and message at no cost.
- Adults who want a swinging and discreet audience rather than a general dating pool.
- Readers who want app access and a clear niche without paying a mid-range premium.
Who should look elsewhere
- Anyone wanting mandatory profile checks, since certification is left optional.
- Readers who want email or phone support rather than community.
- Fans of BDSM scenes, for whom BDSM-baari is a closer niche match.
SwingTowns
Who it suits
- Adults who want a swinger audience, since Swingers, open-minded couples and singles names swingers, open-minded couples and singles.
- Adults willing to read the billing terms first, because Auto-renews; purchases final, no refunds makes purchases final and free of refunds.
- Adults comfortable with identity checks, given that Photo ID may be required; identity certification says photo ID may be required.
Who should look elsewhere
- Adults who want a free first message may prefer EroFantasie, where Registration free, first message free puts registration and the first message at no cost.
- Adults after a free community forum may prefer BDSM-baari, which reports Forum use is free of charge as free forum use.
- Adults who only want to browse may prefer Senior.dk Dating, where Free signup and browsing; contact needs paid VIP keeps contact behind a paid VIP tier.
Country by country
| Country | SexyLib | SwingTowns |
|---|---|---|
| France | Yes | No |
Questions about each
SexyLib
How much does SexyLib cost per month?+
Premium starts at €4.99 on a monthly basis, and Monthly premium from 4.99 EUR is the only plan structure listed. That sits below the swinger category median of €12.95, so the paid tier is entry level for that market. No annual or bundle price appears alongside the monthly figure.
What can I use without paying?+
Access is free for women and couples, and messaging stays free on the free tier, per Free for women and couples; free messaging. That means a man browsing can send messages at no cost, while women and couples have the whole site without a subscription. Only the premium features sit behind the monthly payment.
SwingTowns
What is free on SwingTowns?+
Registration is free and free membership is limited, as Free registration; limited free membership sets out. The plan list in Free, monthly and lifetime also shows a free option next to monthly and lifetime, so a new member can register, look around and only then decide on a paid tier.
Which plans does SwingTowns sell?+
The plan list in Free, monthly and lifetime covers free, monthly and lifetime access, with no annual tier in it. A monthly choice suits anyone wanting a shorter commitment, and the lifetime entry suits anyone paying once. Auto-renewal on monthly is set out in Auto-renews; purchases final, no refunds.