SwingLifestyle review
Updated September 28, 2026 · FlingCue Editorial Team · Facts checked September 26, 2026
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Our verdict
SwingLifestyle suits adults who want a long-running swinger and casual service with age and identity verified (Government ID checked; age and identity verified) and a free profile tier. The trade-off is cost, with fees of $19.99 a month and messaging kept behind the paywall, so a paid plan is needed to write to anyone.
Key facts
- Best for
- Adults who want checked profiles in a swinger and casual audience and will pay $19.99 a month.
- Monthly price from
- $19.99 (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
- What is free
- Free profile; messaging not included (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
- Profile verification
- Government ID checked; age and identity verified (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
- Audience focus
- Swinger couples, singles and groups (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
- Plans
- Monthly, 3, 6, 7, 12-month, lifetime (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
- Members
- millions of members (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
- Renewal and cancelling
- Auto-renews; cancel in iTunes settings (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
- Privacy and data
- Privacy controls; ID and email required (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
- App store rating
- App Store 4.1/5, 5.2K ratings (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
- Categories
- Casual, Swinger (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
- Legal entity
- DashBoardHosting, LLC (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
- Headquarters
- United States (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
- Founded
- 2001 (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
- Support channels
- Email, Help-centre, Community (Source, checked September 26, 2026)
- Pricing model
- Free
- Features
- Mobile app, Verified profiles
- Official website
- swinglifestyle.com
Apps and profiles
- Elsewhere
- Xfacebook.com
Pros and cons
Pros
- Age and identity are checked against government ID, and verified profiles are part of the feature set (Government ID checked; age and identity verified, app and verified profiles).
- Creating a profile is free, which lowers the cost of seeing whether the audience fits (Free profile; messaging not included).
- The audience focus is swinger couples, singles and groups rather than a general pool (Swinger couples, singles and groups).
- Terms include a monthly plan and a lifetime option, giving both short and long commitments (Monthly, 3, 6, 7, 12-month, lifetime).
Cons
- Fees of $19.99 a month sit above the swinger category median of €12.95 a month.
- Messaging is not part of the free profile, so contact needs a paid plan (Free profile; messaging not included).
- Subscriptions auto-renew, and cancelling happens in iTunes settings rather than in the site's own account area (Auto-renews; cancel in iTunes settings).
Ready to try SwingLifestyle?
Scored 9.2 / 10 by FlingCue.
Who it suits
- Adults looking for a swinger-focused audience of couples, singles and groups (Swinger couples, singles and groups).
- Adults who want age and identity verified before they invest time in a profile (Government ID checked; age and identity verified).
- Adults comfortable paying $19.99 a month and switching off auto-renewal in iTunes settings (Auto-renews; cancel in iTunes settings).
Who should look elsewhere
- Readers on a tight budget: EroFantasie lists monthly fees of €0.67 to €1.50 a month, well below $19.99 a month.
- Readers who want to message without paying: messaging is not part of the free profile here (Free profile; messaging not included), and BDSM-baari lists monthly fees of €0.83 to €2.50 a month.
- Readers who want a phone line: support runs on email, help centre and community only.
Members and plans
SwingLifestyle describes its audience as swinger couples, singles and groups (Swinger couples, singles and groups), so the pool is built around a lifestyle rather than general dating. The base is given as millions of members. Terms run monthly, in multi-month blocks and as a lifetime option (Monthly, 3, 6, 7, 12-month, lifetime), which lets readers take the shortest commitment or stay on the longest one. For adults who want the swinger and casual crowd specifically, the audience description is the clearest reason to look here, while the plan list keeps the entry commitment short. The membership figure is the site's own headline count rather than a per-country breakdown.
What is free and what costs
The entry price is $19.99 a month, and the plan set runs monthly, multi-month and lifetime (Monthly, 3, 6, 7, 12-month, lifetime). What is free is narrow: a profile is free to create, while messaging is not included (Free profile; messaging not included). That split puts cost at the front, because the free part covers the profile and the part most readers want sits behind a plan. A lifetime option spreads the same cost over a longer stretch, though the monthly figure is the one to compare with other swinger and casual services. Readers who only want a profile can join at no cost; readers who want to send messages need a paid plan.
Billing and cancelling
Privacy and billing are both covered in the same place, which is convenient for readers weighing both. On data, the policy sets out privacy controls and requires an ID and an email address (Privacy controls; ID and email required), so an account starts with identity details on file before any conversation takes place. On billing, subscriptions auto-renew, and cancellation is done in iTunes settings (Auto-renews; cancel in iTunes settings). The renewal is therefore controlled through the app store rather than a switch inside the site's own account area, which matters for anyone who shares a device or wants the stop to happen from the store's subscription list.
The company behind it
The service is run by DashBoardHosting, LLC, registered in the US (US), and dates back to 2001, a long record in a category that turns over quickly. Support runs on email, help centre and community, so a reader can reach the operator by email, through a help centre or in a community space, and none of those routes are phone based. A named company and a long history matter most to readers who want to know who holds the account data and the ID details after sign-up, and the US registration gives them a clear place to start.
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Frequently asked questions
How much does SwingLifestyle cost a month?+
Fees start at $19.99 a month, and the plan list covers monthly, multi-month and lifetime terms (Monthly, 3, 6, 7, 12-month, lifetime). The free side is limited to profile creation, so a paid plan is what opens messaging. Against the swinger category median of €12.95 a month, the entry price sits high.
What do I get without paying?+
The free tier covers a profile, while messaging is not included (Free profile; messaging not included). The service is also listed as a free model brand (free), which describes the signup tier rather than a free membership with contact rights. Readers who want to send messages should budget for a plan from the start.
How do I cancel a subscription?+
Subscriptions auto-renew, and cancellation is handled in iTunes settings (Auto-renews; cancel in iTunes settings). The renewal is therefore managed through the app store rather than a button in the site's own account area, so the setting has to be changed in iTunes ahead of the next billing date. Plan lengths include monthly, multi-month and lifetime terms (Monthly, 3, 6, 7, 12-month, lifetime).
Are profiles verified?+
Government ID is checked, with age and identity verified (Government ID checked; age and identity verified), and verified profiles are part of the listed feature set (app and verified profiles). The profile itself stays free to create (Free profile; messaging not included), so the ID check belongs to the verification process rather than to signup.
Is there an app, and how does it rate?+
The app is part of the feature set (app and verified profiles), and the app store listing shows App Store 4.1/5, 5.2K ratings. That same listing is where the plan terms and the auto-renewing subscription are described, so the purchase runs through the app store rather than through the site.
Who is the audience?+
The audience focus is swinger couples, singles and groups (Swinger couples, singles and groups), and the niches are listed as casual and swinger (casual and swinger). The base is given as millions of members. That makes it a targeted pick for adults who want a lifestyle audience rather than a general dating pool.
How do I get help?+
Support runs on email, help centre and community, so the routes are email, a help centre and a community space, and no phone line appears among them. The operator behind those routes is DashBoardHosting, LLC, based in the US (US).
What personal information is required?+
The policy sets out privacy controls and requires an ID and an email address (Privacy controls; ID and email required). The operator is DashBoardHosting, LLC, based in the US (US), and the service has run since 2001, so the data sits with a named US company rather than an anonymous operator.
How does the price compare with other services?+
The entry price of $19.99 a month is above the swinger category median of €12.95 a month and above the site median of €14. Cheaper options exist, with EroFantasie at €0.67 to €1.50 a month and BDSM-baari at €0.83 to €2.50 a month.
Sources
- apps.apple.com/us/app/sls-official/id1449170265 checked September 26, 2026
Backs: App store rating, Audience focus, Renewal and cancelling, Founded, Members, Plans, Monthly price from
“4.1 out of 5, 5.2K Ratings”
- swinglifestyle.com checked September 26, 2026
Backs: Categories
“Swinglifestyle.com is the World's Largest Swinger Community”
- swinglifestyle.com/login/privacy-policy.htm checked September 26, 2026
Backs: Headquarters, Privacy and data, Support channels
“DashBoardHosting is based in the United States”
- swinglifestyle.com/login/terms-of-use.htm checked September 26, 2026
Backs: Features, What is free, Legal entity, Pricing model, Profile verification
“our staff manually reviews new Member Registrations, Profile write ups, and Profile updates”
Compiled from 4 source pages, checked September 26, 2026. We did not open an account.
SwingLifestyle
Adults who want checked profiles in a swinger and casual audience and will pay $19.99 a month.