Updated October 6, 2026 · FlingCue Editorial Team

Top fetish and BDSM dating compared in Germany

38 casual dating sites available in Germany, ranked for Germany.

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Top fetish and BDSM dating compared in Germany
#	Casual dating site	Score	Features	Key facts	Actions
1	ALT.comTop pick	8.9/10		Monthly price from: $8.33 What is free: Free registration with limited access Audience focus: Fetish and BDSM dating community	Review Compare Visit
2	FetishPartner	Not rated	Free App	What is free: Free registration, browse and chat Audience focus: Fetish dating portal for men and women Categories: Fetish, Discreet	Review Compare Visit
3	DeutscherCupid	8.8/10	Free App	Monthly price from: €16.99 What is free: Free registration; replies need paid credits Profile verification: 18+ age gate; photos reviewed within 24h	Review Compare Visit
4	TransDate	Not rated	Free	Monthly price from: $27.95 What is free: Free signup; viewing profiles needs paid VIP Audience focus: Trans women, crossdressers, sissies, doms/subs	Review Compare Visit
5	Sub or Dom	Not rated	Free Verified profiles	What is free: Free to join, browse and match Profile verification: Profiles go through strict verification Audience focus: BDSM subs, doms and switchers	Review Compare Visit
6	smkontakt.com smkontakt.com is a German-language BDSM dating portal for adults.	Not rated			Review Compare Visit
7	Fetisch.de	9.7/10	Free App Verified profiles	What is free: Free registration, profiles, messages, chat, forum Profile verification: Free authenticity check (#SSC) with green tick Audience focus: Adults 18+; BDSM and fetish community	Review Compare See alternatives
8	BDSM Singles Free membership to 24 partner kink sites on signup	9.6/10	Free App Verified profiles	What is free: Free profile, photos, search, 10 flirts/day Profile verification: Phone number and optional photo verification badge Audience focus: BDSM singles: subs, doms, switchers, couples	Review Compare See alternatives
9	deeLINE	9.6/10	Free App	What is free: Free registration and browsing; premium for full access Profile verification: Manually reviewed profiles, Real-Siegel verified Audience focus: Adult niche dating, German-speaking market	Review Compare See alternatives
10	POPpen.de	9.6/10	Free App Verified profiles	What is free: Profiles, messages, chat and forum are free Profile verification: Free authenticity check for contact Audience focus: Adults 18+; singles and couples	Review Compare See alternatives