Updated September 30, 2026 · FlingCue Editorial Team

Top fetish and BDSM dating compared in the United Kingdom

36 casual dating sites available in the United Kingdom, ranked for the United Kingdom.

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Top fetish and BDSM dating compared in the United Kingdom
#	Casual dating site	Score	Features	Key facts	Actions
1	ALT.comTop pick	8.9/10		Monthly price from: $8.33 What is free: Free registration with limited access Audience focus: Fetish and BDSM dating community	Review Compare Visit
2	FetishPartner	Not rated	Free App	What is free: Free registration, browse and chat Audience focus: Fetish dating portal for men and women Categories: Fetish, Discreet	Review Compare Visit
3	TransDate	Not rated	Free	Monthly price from: $27.95 What is free: Free signup; viewing profiles needs paid VIP Audience focus: Trans women, crossdressers, sissies, doms/subs	Review Compare Visit
4	Sub or Dom	Not rated	Free Verified profiles	What is free: Free to join, browse and match Profile verification: Profiles go through strict verification Audience focus: BDSM subs, doms and switchers	Review Compare Visit
5	BDSM-UK.com	Not rated	Free Verified profiles	What is free: Free registration; 140 free flirts in first 14 days Profile verification: All female profiles verified Audience focus: UK BDSM and kink dating portal	Review Compare Visit
6	Fetisch.de	9.7/10	Free App Verified profiles	What is free: Free registration, profiles, messages, chat, forum Profile verification: Free authenticity check (#SSC) with green tick Audience focus: Adults 18+; BDSM and fetish community	Review Compare See alternatives
7	BDSM Singles Free membership to 24 partner kink sites on signup	9.6/10	Free App Verified profiles	What is free: Free profile, photos, search, 10 flirts/day Profile verification: Phone number and optional photo verification badge Audience focus: BDSM singles: subs, doms, switchers, couples	Review Compare See alternatives
8	Killing Kittens	9.6/10	App	Profile verification: Photo and ID required to apply Audience focus: Women, trans and non-binary people, 21+ Plans: Full (Kitten) or Guest membership, plus X-PLUS	Review Compare See alternatives
9	SwingTowns	9.6/10	Free App Verified profiles	What is free: Free registration; limited free membership Profile verification: Photo ID may be required; identity certification Audience focus: Swingers, open-minded couples and singles	Review Compare See alternatives
10	Local swingers and niche sites	9.4/10	Free App Verified profiles	Monthly price from: CZK 8.33 to CZK 16.67 What is free: Free registration and basic use Profile verification: Free video-call certification	Review Compare See alternatives