Updated September 30, 2026 · FlingCue Editorial Team
Top fetish and BDSM dating compared in the United States
36 casual dating sites available in the United States, ranked for the United States.
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| 1 |  ALT.comTop pick | 8.9/10 |
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| 2 | TransDate | Not rated |
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| 3 |  Sub or Dom | Not rated |
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| 4 |  Fetisch.de | 9.7/10 |
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| 5 |  BDSM Singles Free membership to 24 partner kink sites on signup | 9.6/10 |
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| 6 |  Killing Kittens | 9.6/10 |
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| 7 |  SwingTowns | 9.6/10 |
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| 8 |  Local swingers and niche sites | 9.4/10 |
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| 9 |  The Cage | 9.4/10 |
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| 10 |  Fetish.com | 9.3/10 |
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